Not all gifts from currently married alumni couples in our database have been soft credited. I would like to be able to segment our alumni based on giving history, and currently, it is possible for one spouse to show up in a donor query and another to appear as a non-donor. Same goes for which funds the gifts were directed toward, in what amount and on what date. I want to avoid mailing or calling the household more than once, but running the list as one per household doesn't help if spouses are in different queries.