With the mail merge, you can't see the names that will surface after you merge before you decide whether or not to record the reminder in each constituent's history. So it would be nice to get to do the merge, pick the reminders you want to send, then go back and note the reminder in each individual record.
yes - be sure to vote for other suggestions that relate to this issue and whole reminder history issue. :)
I would like to be able to delete those reminders that were added. There are times we change our mind and do not send them.